Just sex, as we usually call sexual intercourse outside of stable relationships, is one of the favorite types of lovemaking during student life. Especially in the first 2 years of studies, where the thirst for new experiences and frantic situations is more than engraved in us.
Contrary to many people’s beliefs, having sex is not an easy sport at all. They have their own rules, their own restrictions and their own prerequisites. Data that if you do not obey, you will find yourself in front of unpleasant surprises. Either psycho-emotional or even health issues.
In this context, we list 12 rules that each of us must obey, once we decide that we do not want to share anything more with our partner, despite the enjoyment and pleasure of the moment:
1.Always take precautions
We do not discuss it. A condom should be your first and last thought during unprotected sex. Firstly because you are not 100% sure who you are in front of you, therefore STDs are waiting and secondly, because an unwanted pregnancy at this age (and even with a person with whom you do not share feelings), could be considered catastrophic. Do not forget, after all, many believed that they controlled it and…
2.Do not do it in the hope of a relationship
It would be good not to rely on the stories of dream relationships that started with… one night sex. Ok, it has happened but it is so rare that it does not need further analysis. In the end, the lottery is also won by people, but it is irresponsible to plan your life based on the hope that one day the draw will turn a blind eye to you. We do not intend to hurt you but the more aware you are in these cases, the fewer surprises you will encounter in the future
3.Make frequent health test
I was reading a text yesterday, according to which a 24 year old student who was a fan of erotic contacts outside relations, had never done the tests for HIV etc. STDs. If nothing else, irresponsible behavior that obviously needs to be changed by all 20-year-olds. Both for your own good and for the one with whom you are going to meet.
4.Never just sex with engaged
I know, the forbidden is attractive, hence the huge percentages of infidelity among the 20-year-olds of our time, but… it’s a real shame!
5.Experiment
The law of sex says that the more you experiment in bed, the more you enjoy the whole phase. And trying new things with your partner may not be the best thing in the world (these shames are responsible for everything!), When you do it with someone “invalid” things are much easier. You are not afraid that he will misunderstand you, you are not afraid that he will not want to meet you again, you are not afraid that your idea will fail. You just do it and see the reactions.
6.Don’t be an idiot
Basic rule! Just because you do not feel love for someone does not mean that you have the right to treat him / her badly and hurt him / her. For example, it is very bad to spread rumors about your partner’s sexual performance just to have fun with your friends. Also, in case you / she falls in love with the development of emotions on his / her part, something that does not concern you, make sure to interrupt the relationship. And do not try to raise your self-confidence.
7.Set limits
Limits are a prerequisite for everything you do in your life. You may have read the rule of experimentation above, but that does not mean that you are forced to do things that you do not like and that is not 100% your choice. The fact that you agreed to have just sex with someone does not mean that you became his / her subordinate. Clearly!
8.Not on appointments and outings
There is nothing more stupid than going out for a drink or even worse for eating, with the person you just share a… bed with whenever you are both of you horny. This is because the chances of developing emotions either on your part or on his / her part increase significantly, resulting in unpleasant situations for both of them. So limit the relationship to “just sex”
9.leaving immediately after sex
Even worse than dating and going out together, though, are hugs, kisses and sleeping together. Let’s start from the beggining. Just sex, is the subject of the article. No, “12 things to do with your relationship!”…
10.NEVER just sex with a friend
No. Just NO! It is far from the second, the worst choice you can make and consequently he / she should make the same. Wherever you turn your head, you will see 20-year-old people, attractive and free. So make sure you choose from that “tank” and not from that of the people close to you.
11.Enjoy it
You are 20 years old, you are living your student life to the fullest and you have found a person who likes to have a good time, some nights during the week. What else to ask for? Enjoy the moment, have a good time and do not make second thoughts. And for God’s sake, do not feel remorse for completely stupid reasons!
12.Realize that all good things come to an end
In the back of your mind, however, it would be good to have the end of this just sex relationship. Because sooner or later, she will come. And if it is your choice, it’s ok. But what happens when it is a decision of the other side? If you do not finish it, he / she will finish it. Either because he was bored and looking for something new, or because he like someone else.
